Wednesday, August 8, 2007

Purple Hull Peas...

Ok, first of all let me get this straight. I was raised in Houston and am pretty much a city girl. I had never heard of purple hull peas until I was introduced to them by my dear husband. They look like black eyed peas to me, but those were always from a can and were only eaten on New Year's Day. I surely never grew them, picked them or shelled 'em! That all changed last week!

It has been a little crazy around here lately. We painted and re-carpeted two rooms in our house. So...everything is in my dining room. The house is therefore a mess and this makes me "feeeel" very out of control at times. It is hard enough keeping the house clean on a normal day with 5 kids, but this is just over the top! Well, after cleaning all day as best as we could, in walks my sweet husband. He explains that he is so excited because he wants to introduce them to something from his childhood. He then goes to the car and walks in with a VERY large trash bad of these peas! A bushel of purple hull peas!! My first thought is, "Oh greeeaat, more mess for me to clean!" Yes, I know..totally selfish.

Not so with my very wise and spiritual husband who NEVER shrinks back from a big project! He begins to explain what they are and how he planted them when he was a kid and actually made a great profit off of them. He explains the conveniences of our time and how back in the old days people had to work for their food. They all got a bowl and were told when one bowl was full, they would be given dessert. So, the shelling began! Little peas were flying through the air, shells were getting dropped, and bowls were spilt several times.

This went on for at least an hour. Dear husband then begins to explain about working together and sacrificing for a common good. They all worked feverishly trying to fill up "their" bowl when the light bulb finally went off. My two oldest combined theirs and then began to compete with the little two - who received support from Grandpa and Dad. It took them another hour and tired fingers to wise up to the full lesson. When they saw bedtime was approaching and they were about 1/2 way there(with their combined bowl),they began to lobby their 3 year old sister! She was quite proud of her growing bowl of peas and had no intentions of sharing nor any concern for the bigger picture.

She finally gave in after some very persuasive arguments given by her two older siblings. At last, the bowl was filled and dessert was enjoyed with little, purple stained fingers!

They worked hard the next day and on the third day, desperate to get the peas and all of the extra mess out of my house, I finally joined in on the fun and we finished. We enjoyed peas and cornbread for dinner...the fruit of our labor!

I love seeing the kids learn a powerful lesson. I love that my husband is so cool and wise. I love that in ministering to our kids, he still ministers to me.

Lessons of the cow pea patch:
1. Work Hard: All hard work leads to profit. Pr 12:14 & 14:23 & 13:4
2. Work Diligent: Blessed are the hands of the diligent. Pr 10:4 & 12:24 & 21:5
3. Work Smart: Sharpen your ax and it makes for easier work. Ecc 10:10

"Good planning and hard work lead to prosperity,but hasty shortcuts lead to poverty." Pr 21:5 NLT

"The appetite of the sluggard craves and gets nothing, but the appetite of the diligent is abundantly supplied." Pr 13:4 AMP



9 comments:

Laura Jo said...

i'm glad i was there to witness the debut of the pea hulling. it still makes me laugh. i'd shell a canyon full of peas to eat some more cinna-wheel.

The Brodines said...

I love the hands on lessons myself because that's when I learn the most. One of the things that I love about John is how he takes an ordinary thing/situation to teach something deeper...a lot like Jesus:) Some of the fresh memories I have from spending time with you guys are when John would teach Hannah verses from the Bible through the daily, everyday living. I love you so very much. Did you get your house in order??

Beth said...

They look so cute . . . and accomplishing so much! : )

The Brodines said...

I forgot to mention...your kids are GORGEOUS!!! They look so cute, Nicole...so grown up...:) Love them!

Anonymous said...

that's so powerful nicole :) it makes me think also of the long hours I was blessed to spend with my grandmother and we would prepare snap peas. :) Those are the moments we never forget. :)

Michawn said...

That's so awesome Nicole. Lidia is right...John is so amazing at teaching parables, just like Jesus. I LOVE shelling peas...such wonderful memories. LOVE IT!! Granddaddy's garden always has bushels and bushels and bushels for us to shell and can or freeze. I spent many a summer day with purple fingers and loved every minute of it I might add. I'm not sure why I loved shelling peas so much, but I sure do miss it. I also like picking them too...hard work, but satisfying. That can be your next adventure...taking your kids to a pick-your-own peas field...good lessons in that too. Girlfriend, you are gonna be a country girl before me and John are finished with you. :) Loves ya!

Toni said...

Happy belated birthday beautiful! I continue to enjoy your blog. You truly have an anointing for teaching. You choose the right major/vocation and no doubt the kids and those around you are blessed by your giftings.

js said...

You go Sally Clarkson! Super cool. Looks like fun. Love the lesson.

Unknown said...

Nicole,
Last time I saw you it was probably at my wedding and you had two kids... now 5! What a blessing.. you two were such a blessing in my life and I know even more to your own family. Tell John hello for Ken and I.
Love to you,
Leah (McKinney)
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